On Tuesday, Mississippi was ground zero in the war on women. Initiative 26, a dangerous anti-abortion ballot measure, would have defined life as beginning at conception, giving “personhood” status to undeveloped zygotes. The language of this initiative was so vague, it could have called for…
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People are arguing about this again, so lemme whip out the book.
First of all, let me just say that historically, every single myth about centaurs, apart from myths about Chiron (a scholar who is basically “the good one”, and who is echoed in…
This was written in response to a FetLife post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties.
You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful.
Let me ask you something:
- Do you have a…
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“having sex with the girl you love is the whole point of a relationship anyway. if you get both at once, you don’t need it from somewhere else. right?”
“why do you think i don’t love you?”
Llll….bleh. I don’t even like that word anymore. The phrase “once bitten, twice shy” is way too cliche and simple for this. More like 10 times (or s) bitten and too stupid to be shy about it, still.
The past month, give or take a few days, has been different for me. Different because I’m actually seeing a guy, in real life, who lives no more than a 20 minute drive from me, as opposed to thousands of miles and an unlikely plane ride away. Different because he’s married, but he’s not having an affair. The whole situation, as odd as it is, is kind of nice. We hang out, we fuck, we cuddle. His wife comes home from work, and the three of us watch a movie, or go eat at Denny’s, or talk about WoW (they both play, too). He’s happy because he’s having great sex with someone he likes (yours truly), she’s happy for the same reason, because that means she doesn’t need to worry about how she’s not having sex with him (because she has no sex drive/because she’s more gay than anything/because they don’t regularly have sex for the first reason listed).
Yep. Sleeping with a married guy and having his wife know about it, and being friends with both of them is not exactly the way I pictured my next relationship. Maybe that’s why I like it. Expect the unexpected, and whatnot. It’s a funny/sad comment on people these days, really, because of the number of girls he’s talked to that are perfectly willing to have sex with him as long as his wife doesn’t know about it. As soon as they get to the part where their marriage is open (at least on one side) and that he wants an actual girlfriend, not just a fuck buddy, is where most women clam up and find it weird. I thought I would, too, but I didn’t.
Naturally those pesky emotions have cropped up, and I was certain they were one-sided and that I was very adept at keeping things from him. Seems I was wrong on both counts. He’s way more inquisitive than most men I’ve known and perceptive, which is nice, even though it means my already terrible skill at concealing my feelings is even more questionable.
Deep down inside, I want someone that is exclusively mine. This isn’t it.
<3
i can almost have everything i want. but only almost.
